Figure Lao Zhu particularly busy recently, while visiting the various units by the end of reception, while also Xiaotao day visit to the hospital (a pseudonym). Xiaotao is the son of Zhu Ying (a pseudonym) of the students, a secondary school in the next higher Nam. Xiaotao hospitalized because of alcoholism, early morning of January 28 was to drink with gourmet Pinjiu down, with the fallen, as well as Zhu Xiaotao sail and three other students. As a civil service cadres, not interested in gourmet and children Pinjiu. how to control the child, he can listen to? unconsciously walking Akira, buzzing tinnitus combined with the effects of alcohol, so just out of the bar, Zhu and his four classmates sail not wake up from a glass dance floor. Although bleak, the temperature is over 10 degrees Celsius below zero, but they face crimson, his eyes blurred.
five drunken taxi came to a small sail home Zhu.
did not expect it to Zhu's father sails open,UGG Online, gourmet task is completed ahead of the field visits back home. Open the door, leaning on the wall upside down to see the five boys, Lao Zhu his son went to the bar nonsense and students, the gas is not one to play. the first time, every time came back Zhu sails are ready to be ideological education to prepare, in his view, the stern rhetoric for half an hour a night and the man child's Gongchoujiaocuo, no loss. However, five drunken young man while standing in front of Lao Zhu, the first time. Gourmet in the study and the son of the living room listening to the students but also to discuss the drinking laughter, and finally stifled anger, one opened the study door shouted: tonight and the kids get drunk. and three other students to sit the table even before the micro-shaking steps, Lao Zhu agreed to the proposal.
shopping! Prior to the Jiu Jin, drinking a bottle of red wine, Xiaotao staggered two students lying on the sofa asleep. Drinking wine, and open a bottle of white wine 38 degrees King Spring, Xiaotao some weak to continue, stomach badly, but in order to face and right after going to the pub, he insisted, and gourmet strong vapid. Lao Zhu big drinker, the unit is out of the name, with an angry, overwhelmed opposite momentum is also the son and Xiaotao. Not finish the second cup, Xiaotao will feel the immediate dark, pitched down on the table, Zhu Ying and another classmate, has long been lying on the table and fell asleep.
poisoning, the need for hospitalization days.
C son drunk every three or four days results fall
high school, in most people's eyes, should be is But Zhu Ying and Xiaotao such children, but most students who live and different days, they indulged in the night the world's best electronic music and disillusionment of the lights, the din of the laser light in the complex playing a variety of drinking game, 一杯接一杯 to filling with alcohol, mixed with cigarettes and perfume in the air, these minor drunk puff, followed by ear-splitting music, writhing body claws. disturbed. Soon, many times coming home drunk and rapid decline in performance, so that Lao Zhu aware of the seriousness of the problem, children are onto the crooked path.
they take off their uniforms to wear a mature coat, but no less than the age carved off the face of childlike, not learn to balance life, Zhu Ying, a week thirty-four days are spent in the bar, over- serious impact on the second day of the spirit of indulgence, over time, he's learning to become a mess. As incorrigible, helpless, while his family, is taken for Zhu sail strict discipline policy, with little success; in school, Zhu sail from the top ten junior high school class last fall and now ten list, the teacher no longer on his love with Canada, replaced by indifferent and accused criticism.
Well is not easy. school and at home too depressed, not stay.
do not you look at his performance last semester, four courses combined score less than 50 minutes, it is let me do the parents loses face ah. relentlessly fell on the coffee table, like a slap in the face, beating Zhu sail in fragile and rebellious heart.
◎ psychologists
children have bad habits, to the warmth address
Zhu Ying is just one example, but the same as Zhu Ying Qing rebellion in adolescence young and a minority. Many parents complain that their children how more and more difficult to manage? Sixteen-year-old child indulging in the Internet, bars and other places, learning and health are deteriorating day by day, I do not know whether to go back, the more control you even more rebellious. Rebellious child in the end it should, how? The child has entered the wrong track, what to do in order to effectively guide them back to healthy living? This issue, the reporter interviewed the Qingdao Institute of Music for the psychological control Kui order.
management director, according to reports, the degree varies rebellious adolescent children, a child who the parents are too strict discipline their children, are often faced with a serious rebellious children.
parents should give young children the full right to choose, let the children listen to the light is not desirable, the children have their own thinking and choice, so that he will improve a number of self-consciousness,UGG Online, and will not to sudden outbreak of adolescent desire for self-awareness, leading to some aggressive behavior. Management director, told reporters, to reduce the rebellious child psychology and behavior, first, to give them a chance to self-choice, let them seize the initiative, including learning, games, household chores and so on.
Secondly, parents do not impose on the children look forward to. Expectations imposed on children's psychological burden will increase, so that parents expected him even more annoying things. management director, said not only to learn in their daily lives, the children also have incorrect expectations. . children no longer lonely and oppressed psychology is particularly important. not satisfied, can not reasonably emotional catharsis, so let the emotional needs of children than the family bar, cafe, parents do their emotional life consultant and advisor, friends and children communicate, rather than top-down control,Moncler Jackets, then child and natural parents are willing to communicate.
correspondent Xu Yao
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